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Coping strategies
A taxonomy of coping techniques — behavioral, cognitive, emotional, and social — and how to build a toolkit you actually use.
Quick answer
A coping strategy is anything you do instead of acting on the craving. The goal isn't to find the "right" strategy — it's to have several you trust and can reach for in the moment.
Four categories
Behavioral
Doing something physical instead of the urge. Redirects attention through action.
Examples:
- Go for a walk, ideally outside
- Exercise (even 5 minutes of bodyweight movement)
- Call or text someone
- Make a meal or drink
- Clean a room or organize a drawer
- Take a shower
- Leave the situation entirely
Best for: acute cravings, boredom, low energy, environmental triggers.
Cognitive
Changing how you're thinking about the craving or its cause.
Examples:
- Reframe the thought. "I'll never get better" → "I'm having a hard moment in a longer arc." See Dawn's thought- reframing exercise.
- Challenge rationalizations. "Just this once" → "Past 'just this once' moments led to where I am now."
- Practice gratitude. Three things going well right now — even small.
- Use a thought record. Write the trigger thought, the emotional response, the evidence for and against, and a balanced reframe.
Best for: cognitive triggers, low-mood states, recurring thought patterns.
Emotional regulation
Techniques for managing the intensity of feelings without acting on them.
Examples:
- Deep breathing (box breathing, 4-7-8 — see exercises).
- Progressive muscle relaxation. Tense and release each muscle group from feet to head.
- Grounding (5-4-3-2-1, body scan). See exercises.
- Urge surfing. Watch the craving as a wave instead of acting on it. See exercises.
- Mindfulness meditation. Even 5 minutes lowers reactivity.
Best for: high-intensity emotions, panic, dissociation, acute craving spikes.
Social
Using your support network. Often the most effective category and also the hardest to use.
Examples:
- Reach out to a trusted person (the simple act of texting someone "I'm struggling right now" often defuses the moment).
- Attend a support group (in-person or virtual).
- Spend time with recovery-positive people.
- Use an accountability partner for both regular check-ins and acute moments.
- Talk to a therapist or counselor.
Best for: emotional triggers, isolation, when other strategies have already failed.
Build your toolkit
Aim for 3–5 strategies you've actually used and know help. Not 15 you've heard about and never tried.
How to assemble it
Try several strategies during low-stakes moments
Practice when you don't need to. Box breathing during a boring meeting. A 5-minute walk after lunch. Texting a friend mid-week with no agenda.
Note what works for you
Different strategies fit different people. The "best" technique is the one you'll actually use. Use the coping-strategy field on check-ins to track which ones you reach for and how they go.
Read your data
The Progress Insights tab shows which coping strategies correlate with your lower-craving days. The data often surprises — strategies you thought were generic may be your best ones.
Match strategies to trigger types
Behavioral for environmental triggers. Cognitive for rumination. Emotional regulation for acute spikes. Social for isolation. The matching matters more than any single technique.
Practice your top strategies
Repetition makes them accessible in the moment. Box breathing on day one is awkward; box breathing on day twenty is automatic.
What to avoid as a strategy
- Substituting one compulsion for another. Replacing one unhealthy habit with a different unhealthy habit (e.g. binge-eating instead of drinking) doesn't address the underlying pattern.
- Pure avoidance. Avoiding all triggers all the time isn't recovery — it's a fragile structure. Some avoidance is healthy; pure avoidance produces bigger crises later.
- White-knuckling alone. Trying to power through entirely through willpower works for some people in some moments. It is not a sustainable long-term strategy.
Common pitfalls
Collecting strategies you never practice
Reading about coping techniques is not the same as having them available. The strategies you've practiced 50 times are the ones that fire when you need them. Pick a few and use them.
Treating coping as the goal
Coping is a means, not an end. The goal is a life that has fewer cravings and less need for active coping. Use coping strategies to get through this stretch; use the larger work (therapy, relationships, environment changes) to make future stretches easier.
Next steps
- Dawn exercises — concrete techniques you can run on demand.
- Building healthy habits — the longer- term project beyond moment-to-moment coping.
- Build a safety plan — formalize your strategies in a usable document.
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